Monday 15 July 2013


What  a night ... thanks so much girls for making it a sharing sensation.

Wonderful speaker tonight Jason, an Architect, explained how he was a 5 not a 7 when he graduated and because of that he was offered a position because he had some people skills and he became a success by his work ethic 60 to 80 hours a week, every week until he was a success,  I had no idea they do just what we do, work long hours for a 40 hour pay packet, of course, he’s in a higher bracket sure, but with expenses like $135 for a book whooee. Wow! And that’s after doing a degree. Hmmmm ......... What else is possible?

He lead us down a road of education options reading books like .... How to win friends and influence people .... Think and grow rich .... and he told us about his wonderful family. Go to the library take them out, read them and see if it makes a difference to you living. It will only cost you the trip to the library. See no money and you can read at home.

There’s always lots of cute boys at these events and to be honest I go for that first then for the education. I’m learning to be more of what I’m capable of, while looking at yummy scenery, ha ha ha ha happy Helen and I’m proud to say meeting some amazing friends. How did we get to be so lucky? Ohhh yes that’s right we choose. We choose to get up and go out after work on a Monday and meet and mingle with like minded people who want more than just working.

The gorgeous Scottish Lass Jo came along tonight and we laughed at her fun accent as she reeled off stories of her travels and her home. The amazing Justine was leading us on her travels overseas and the customs in Japan when it’s cold. Whoooeeeee what a night.  Chez Burton the business dynamo gave us some thoughts on how to make money. We liked those ideas.

Sure one has to action something. Sitting at home watching TV isn’t making any extra cash and who said hope would work “hope” things will get better “hope” it’ll be alright “hope” there’s money coming next week. Sorry folks just in case you wondered, hope is just another word, for I don’t choose.

We talked about religion tonight at dinner, well not religion more the influence of Buddhism and Jesus Christ our Christianity in this country. How we felt that maybe it’s what’s missing, not the religion, the communion that religion presents. Hmmm maybe I mean socialising. When I was a kid we all went to church, the whole neighbourhood and we all left our doors open and we all looked after one another when the chips where down. We were more wondering .... where is that sense of social???? If we stay home alone how do we met amazing beings that make us laugh and sing and glad we were out in the cold.

Anyway from this ordinary Australian girl who had a wonderful time. Thank you .....
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Will you consider coming along next week and having a bit of an adventure in conversation and dinner and after there’s live entertainment?

Saturday 13 July 2013



I’ve been in hospital I know what a beating is ..... I was raped when I was 14 ... I know tough. I also know when one takes a minute to look up, there's often a surprise, it can be birds, like seagulls  or just the shapes of the clouds like the background in the picture I've chosen looks like fish swimming centre right under the lowest seagull................

Hi. My name is Helen Stokes. I’m  a Loganite. Basically that means I’m from the south side of Brisbane, I wasn’t born on the south side, RBH (Royal Brisbane Hospital) in fact and I’ve lived all over Australia and travelled overseas as well.
I work in paid employment from 9 to 5 and I enjoy what I do, it’s fun and easy for me. In the current reality, it’s not enough, I work from home in other capacities too. I have two network marketing businesses, which basically means I sell, cold canvas, vitamins, makeup, jewellery and membership and I’m an Access Consciousness Facilitator, which means I have the knowledge to place my hands on your clothed body and transport you to a relaxed state of being, which is amazing and awesome for you. So what’s this all about. I come from a background of DV. I was raped at 14 and I know life is tough sometimes. So why am I telling you my story. So that you know there’s hope. I have already been down the dark road and I found the most amazing colour in the dark. What does that mean. I was on the edge of life and death and I found something amazing. Life really is worth living. If we are breathing there is hope.
What we face regularly is that most of us including myself forget just how amazing this planet and breathing is.
Take a few minutes break every day, 2 or 3 a day if you’re on a downer and go outside or if you’re at a desk like me look up. Watch the sky change colour, the birds fly by, the flowers blooming, the trees blowing in the breeze, watch the planes, the boats, whatever you have outside or up around you. I often watch semi-trailers and trees, why, because I work in Rocklea and that’s what’s around me. I’m glad to be present in the moment knowing there’s bees flying around. My parents weren’t rich. I’d say they were poor. My Dad was a soldier, he’s dead now, he died in a motor cycle accident over ten years ago. My Mum well she basically fell apart after his death. So why am I telling you. So you have more choice. What would happen to you if your husband, brother, father, lover, boyfriend died or left? The reason I do that is because it took me the loss of my father to realise I did not need to be beaten by my partner any longer and it took the loss of my business to realise I was relying on a man to bring money to my world. I’m not trying to down you. I’m just wondering woman to woman what would happen to you? It’s taken me good part of my adult life and many knocks quite literally to wake up. Women require their our own income, the earlier we do this from more than one source, the easier life and living is.
Here’s my invitation .... there’s heaps of other’s out there so you choose for what makes you feel warm and fuzzy.
I give you a couple of possibilities.
1.       Work, 9 to 5, or whatever the boss at work tells you. For the rest of your time and just have 2 days off and 4 weeks per year. Or

2.       Take up other modes of income. Sure there’s work in it for a couple of years after you finish your job. Cold canvassing is where you talk to people and let them know what you have on offer so that people can choose if they would like to participate or not. I have three choices; membership, product, hands on body.
I lost everything, or at least for a long time that’s where my thinking was. I lost my father’s arms and his voice to say “don’t worry daught everything will be ok”, I’ve been in hospital I know what a beating is, so when I walked away from the man in my world beating me, I lost all my friends, I moved away so that “he” would not easily find me and when my business partner decided he required all the money in the bank and closed my business down, I lost my income. I know sad. I know bad. I know ripped off. Sure it’s taken me a minute or two to pick myself up this time. Yet I am here. I still have me so I didn’t loose everything, in fact I just lost the men in my world and my income. Luckily one can replace income. And why I’m telling you all this is so you too can have a choice. Do you choose more? Do you? Come and meet me. I’m at the Mansfield Tavern Mondays at 5.45pm approx. I have dinner there Monday as a treat for myself after work the first day of the week. Will I try and sell you something, probably not, I like talking. Will you want to buy something from me? Well that my friend is the question. It depends, have you enjoyed reading this? Would you like more, to listen to me, live? I’d love to hear your story. Come, share some food and conversation, that will cost you whatever you choose to eat and drink, and I can guarantee I will chat with you about whatever you would like. What else are you doing Mondays after work for an hour or more?

Tuesday 9 July 2013



Living in Queensland is awesome for me. The weather is amazing most of the time, even in winter one can still choose to go out and picnic or walk in the bush. How lucky we are. It makes sense when we look at it ... When we are happy we send out happy energy and we then receive happy energy ... When we are angry or grumpy same thing happens we receive angry or grumpy. I wonder what would occur if we collectively for a month put out a choice of happy? Someone once said if you wake up unhappy then make the demand NO I choose happy and pretend until the rest of you catches up. I'm know some days are diamonds and some are stone. This is simply a tool ..... what can I do to make my life and living happier and more joyous.

I hear a lot of unsatisfaction when I talk to people, they’re unsatisfied with their lives, their jobs, their bank balance, their kids education. So what’s possible? Team up with me. It’s that simple. I have the tools to show you and to share with you. Sure some of them are for sale money is a requirement in this reality to have a home and drive a car. Some are totally available for free, it just takes a little effort on your part. If you’re serious about change ... Do something about it.
On offer
This is set all you have to do is rock up ....
.... Monday nights at the Mansfield Tavern ... around 5.45pm Conversation and Dinner ... meet me there and we’ll share some food and a chat. Is there more to it? Yes and No ... option 1 .. No just have dinner and chat with me, it’s changing what you currently do and adding a little for you.   option 2 .. Yes, there’s a business meeting (totally optional) at 7.30pm in the next room. They have tools to expand your world and as my guest it’s free. So if you’re looking for change, here’s choice.

These require booking and letting me know you’re attending  ....
.... Tuesday nights my home Ewing Rd Woodridge (the next few weeks, I’m on the move) ... I like change ... for me it’s all about growth, when you’re a baby you change to a child, then a teen, then a young adult, then a parent, then an empty nester, then older, then dust. For me change is what occurs regardless, I simply like to choose the direction I’m going. We play cards and play board games over a cuppa. It’s $10 which includes biscuit a cuppa included. Euka or 500 or Canasta ... There’s Cludo ... if you have a game you’d like to play, bring it .....
.... Thursday nights at Loganholme .... How’s your health? It makes no difference of your size. I’m a big girl. I’m healthy I run up and down stairs at my day job. I’m into nourishing my cells with organic fruits and vegetables that are grown on a 7000 acre organic farm where they’re picked and packaged within 4 hours. The specialists speakers will gift you with knowledge and empower your own choice in your health. There’s a coffee shop (whatever you choose to spend or not) and then a meet $6, for me great value as we listen to a doctors / specialists that normally charges hundreds of dollars for a consultation and we receive that info for $6, wow at  Loganholme

.... Saturday or Sunday ... picnic, park, rally, meet at a destination and share some fun / food / different atmosphere. Last week we went to a Nursery for a wonder around the plants, we took a look at an aquarium and a yummy treat as well J
For me it’s about making a change, having happy energy around and bringing the change required to have satisfaction whenever you choose it. Is it bring it or bling it ???? Ha ha ha happy Tuesday J Contact me on facebook or email bizauz@bigpond.com or 0415 595 900 for more details on these.

Saturday 6 July 2013

Bee vs Being


 
My background of DV and rape saw me in a place of non-management. I simply did not function. Getting out of bed was hmmmmmm a challenge. The result of that .... poor choice and lack of awareness. The great news is, it is possible to change ..........

I do not know why people are afraid of change. We change from babies to children, from children to teens, from teens to parents, from parents and the longest part of our living, working, participation then we simply are old and pass on. Change happens every second of every day, we don’t have the cells we started with. What is fear anyway false expectations appearing real. When was the  last time you said thank you for me being and breathing?

I’ve walked the dark path. That is why I’m offering something different to you.

Do you wish, hope, dream, desire, cry, scream alone ... you know there’s more .... you have no idea where to begin? Here’s my hand .... come to me .... I’ll run your Bars® absolutely free, as I’ve said I’ve been there, where the dark, the heavy, the whatever you choose to call it boogy man,  consumes everything. I will gift you with a Bars® session for free. What will that do? Well it’s about an hour and a quarter of the best massage you’ll ever have. When was the last time you gifted you? I can hear you even now. Why is this woman offering something for free. I’ve been there. I know that I was gifted some things for free and because of the kindness of complete strangers I am here to offer to you the same. One session absolutely free. For some that’s all that’s required, they go away and their lives are different ...  for others they sign on as clients some for a long time some for a few months. It is what it is. Do you know there’s more yet you’ve no idea how to get there? Here’s the pair of hands and I offer them for you.

I’ve been with my horse today. I call him my horse. He isn’t he is owned by someone else yet I love him. Silly when I say it ... weird when I read it ... I’m loving a horse. He is magnificent though strong like a war horse, beauty in movement and kinder than any other creature I’ve met or known he simply is awesome. Why am I bringing this to you. The lady where the horse is and the horse gift me all the time. If you’re looking for confidence, horse handling, I know where to direct you. Simply ask

You already have a picture  of me. You know I’m all about bringing it for you. There’s a new group forming .... Mansfield Tavern Monday Nights 5.45pm approx. We have dinner the menu’s amazing and for under $20 you have a great night and get to meet amazing beings. There’s a (optional free as my guest) business meeting next room after at 7.30pm where if we’re really luck the business dynamo Chez Burton will gift us with a few minutes of her time. I’ve been seeking a female role model in this time and dimension for some time and I’m so glad Chez’s is here.

My world is expanding, the joy is in being and bees. The bees have formed a home on my eaves, a little mud made hive and there’s hundreds of them. How’d I get to be so lucky? They whisper sweet hummings to me at night and I’ve so much gratitude for the awesome awareness of being here on this planet right now .... Would you choose to be more?