What  a night ... thanks so much girls for making it a sharing sensation.

Wonderful speaker tonight Jason, an Architect, explained how he was a 5 not a 7 when he graduated and because of that he was offered a position because he had some people skills and he became a success by his work ethic 60 to 80 hours a week, every week until he was a success,  I had no idea they do just what we do, work long hours for a 40 hour pay packet, of course, he’s in a higher bracket sure, but with expenses like $135 for a book whooee. Wow! And that’s after doing a degree. Hmmmm ......... What else is possible?

He lead us down a road of education options reading books like .... How to win friends and influence people .... Think and grow rich .... and he told us about his wonderful family. Go to the library take them out, read them and see if it makes a difference to you living. It will only cost you the trip to the library. See no money and you can read at home.

There’s always lots of cute boys at these events and to be honest I go for that first then for the education. I’m learning to be more of what I’m capable of, while looking at yummy scenery, ha ha ha ha happy Helen and I’m proud to say meeting some amazing friends. How did we get to be so lucky? Ohhh yes that’s right we choose. We choose to get up and go out after work on a Monday and meet and mingle with like minded people who want more than just working.

The gorgeous Scottish Lass Jo came along tonight and we laughed at her fun accent as she reeled off stories of her travels and her home. The amazing Justine was leading us on her travels overseas and the customs in Japan when it’s cold. Whoooeeeee what a night.  Chez Burton the business dynamo gave us some thoughts on how to make money. We liked those ideas.

Sure one has to action something. Sitting at home watching TV isn’t making any extra cash and who said hope would work “hope” things will get better “hope” it’ll be alright “hope” there’s money coming next week. Sorry folks just in case you wondered, hope is just another word, for I don’t choose.

We talked about religion tonight at dinner, well not religion more the influence of Buddhism and Jesus Christ our Christianity in this country. How we felt that maybe it’s what’s missing, not the religion, the communion that religion presents. Hmmm maybe I mean socialising. When I was a kid we all went to church, the whole neighbourhood and we all left our doors open and we all looked after one another when the chips where down. We were more wondering .... where is that sense of social???? If we stay home alone how do we met amazing beings that make us laugh and sing and glad we were out in the cold.

Anyway from this ordinary Australian girl who had a wonderful time. Thank you .....

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Will you consider coming along next week and having a bit of an adventure in conversation and dinner and after there’s live entertainment?

I’ve been in hospital I know what a beating is ..... I was raped when I was 14 ... I know tough. I also know when one takes a minute to look up, there's often a surprise, it can be birds, like seagulls  or just the shapes of the clouds like the background in the picture I've chosen looks like fish swimming centre right under the lowest seagull................

Hi. My name is Helen Stokes. I’m  a Loganite. Basically that means I’m from the south side of Brisbane, I wasn’t born on the south side, RBH (Royal Brisbane Hospital) in fact and I’ve lived all over Australia and travelled overseas as well.

I work in paid employment from 9 to 5 and I enjoy what I do, it’s fun and easy for me. In the current reality, it’s not enough, I work from home in other capacities too. I have two network marketing businesses, which basically means I sell, cold canvas, vitamins, makeup, jewellery and membership and I’m an Access Consciousness Facilitator, which means I have the knowledge to place my hands on your clothed body and transport you to a relaxed state of being, which is amazing and awesome for you. So what’s this all about. I come from a background of DV. I was raped at 14 and I know life is tough sometimes. So why am I telling you my story. So that you know there’s hope. I have already been down the dark road and I found the most amazing colour in the dark. What does that mean. I was on the edge of life and death and I found something amazing. Life really is worth living. If we are breathing there is hope.

What we face regularly is that most of us including myself forget just how amazing this planet and breathing is.

Take a few minutes break every day, 2 or 3 a day if you’re on a downer and go outside or if you’re at a desk like me look up. Watch the sky change colour, the birds fly by, the flowers blooming, the trees blowing in the breeze, watch the planes, the boats, whatever you have outside or up around you. I often watch semi-trailers and trees, why, because I work in Rocklea and that’s what’s around me. I’m glad to be present in the moment knowing there’s bees flying around. My parents weren’t rich. I’d say they were poor. My Dad was a soldier, he’s dead now, he died in a motor cycle accident over ten years ago. My Mum well she basically fell apart after his death. So why am I telling you. So you have more choice. What would happen to you if your husband, brother, father, lover, boyfriend died or left? The reason I do that is because it took me the loss of my father to realise I did not need to be beaten by my partner any longer and it took the loss of my business to realise I was relying on a man to bring money to my world. I’m not trying to down you. I’m just wondering woman to woman what would happen to you? It’s taken me good part of my adult life and many knocks quite literally to wake up. Women require their our own income, the earlier we do this from more than one source, the easier life and living is.

Here’s my invitation .... there’s heaps of other’s out there so you choose for what makes you feel warm and fuzzy.

I give you a couple of possibilities.

1.       Work, 9 to 5, or whatever the boss at work tells you. For the rest of your time and just have 2 days off and 4 weeks per year. Or

2.       Take up other modes of income. Sure there’s work in it for a couple of years after you finish your job. Cold canvassing is where you talk to people and let them know what you have on offer so that people can choose if they would like to participate or not. I have three choices; membership, product, hands on body.

I lost everything, or at least for a long time that’s where my thinking was. I lost my father’s arms and his voice to say “don’t worry daught everything will be ok”, I’ve been in hospital I know what a beating is, so when I walked away from the man in my world beating me, I lost all my friends, I moved away so that “he” would not easily find me and when my business partner decided he required all the money in the bank and closed my business down, I lost my income. I know sad. I know bad. I know ripped off. Sure it’s taken me a minute or two to pick myself up this time. Yet I am here. I still have me so I didn’t loose everything, in fact I just lost the men in my world and my income. Luckily one can replace income. And why I’m telling you all this is so you too can have a choice. Do you choose more? Do you? Come and meet me. I’m at the Mansfield Tavern Mondays at 5.45pm approx. I have dinner there Monday as a treat for myself after work the first day of the week. Will I try and sell you something, probably not, I like talking. Will you want to buy something from me? Well that my friend is the question. It depends, have you enjoyed reading this? Would you like more, to listen to me, live? I’d love to hear your story. Come, share some food and conversation, that will cost you whatever you choose to eat and drink, and I can guarantee I will chat with you about whatever you would like. What else are you doing Mondays after work for an hour or more?

Living in Queensland is awesome for me. The weather is amazing most of the time, even in winter one can still choose to go out and picnic or walk in the bush. How lucky we are. It makes sense when we look at it ... When we are happy we send out happy energy and we then receive happy energy ... When we are angry or grumpy same thing happens we receive angry or grumpy. I wonder what would occur if we collectively for a month put out a choice of happy? Someone once said if you wake up unhappy then make the demand NO I choose happy and pretend until the rest of you catches up. I'm know some days are diamonds and some are stone. This is simply a tool ..... what can I do to make my life and living happier and more joyous.

I hear a lot of unsatisfaction when I talk to people, they’re unsatisfied with their lives, their jobs, their bank balance, their kids education. So what’s possible? Team up with me. It’s that simple. I have the tools to show you and to share with you. Sure some of them are for sale money is a requirement in this reality to have a home and drive a car. Some are totally available for free, it just takes a little effort on your part. If you’re serious about change ... Do something about it.

On offer

This is set all you have to do is rock up ....

.... Monday nights at the Mansfield Tavern ... around 5.45pm Conversation and Dinner ... meet me there and we’ll share some food and a chat. Is there more to it? Yes and No ... option 1 .. No just have dinner and chat with me, it’s changing what you currently do and adding a little for you.   option 2 .. Yes, there’s a business meeting (totally optional) at 7.30pm in the next room. They have tools to expand your world and as my guest it’s free. So if you’re looking for change, here’s choice.

These require booking and letting me know you’re attending  ....

.... Tuesday nights my home Ewing Rd Woodridge (the next few weeks, I’m on the move) ... I like change ... for me it’s all about growth, when you’re a baby you change to a child, then a teen, then a young adult, then a parent, then an empty nester, then older, then dust. For me change is what occurs regardless, I simply like to choose the direction I’m going. We play cards and play board games over a cuppa. It’s $10 which includes biscuit a cuppa included. Euka or 500 or Canasta ... There’s Cludo ... if you have a game you’d like to play, bring it .....

.... Thursday nights at Loganholme .... How’s your health? It makes no difference of your size. I’m a big girl. I’m healthy I run up and down stairs at my day job. I’m into nourishing my cells with organic fruits and vegetables that are grown on a 7000 acre organic farm where they’re picked and packaged within 4 hours. The specialists speakers will gift you with knowledge and empower your own choice in your health. There’s a coffee shop (whatever you choose to spend or not) and then a meet $6, for me great value as we listen to a doctors / specialists that normally charges hundreds of dollars for a consultation and we receive that info for $6, wow at  Loganholme

.... Saturday or Sunday ... picnic, park, rally, meet at a destination and share some fun / food / different atmosphere. Last week we went to a Nursery for a wonder around the plants, we took a look at an aquarium and a yummy treat as well J

For me it’s about making a change, having happy energy around and bringing the change required to have satisfaction whenever you choose it. Is it bring it or bling it ???? Ha ha ha happy Tuesday J Contact me on facebook or email bizauz@bigpond.com or 0415 595 900 for more details on these.

Bee vs Being

 

My background of DV and rape saw me in a place of non-management. I simply did not function. Getting out of bed was hmmmmmm a challenge. The result of that .... poor choice and lack of awareness. The great news is, it is possible to change ..........

I do not know why people are afraid of change. We change from babies to children, from children to teens, from teens to parents, from parents and the longest part of our living, working, participation then we simply are old and pass on. Change happens every second of every day, we don’t have the cells we started with. What is fear anyway false expectations appearing real. When was the  last time you said thank you for me being and breathing?

I’ve walked the dark path. That is why I’m offering something different to you.

Do you wish, hope, dream, desire, cry, scream alone ... you know there’s more .... you have no idea where to begin? Here’s my hand .... come to me .... I’ll run your Bars® absolutely free, as I’ve said I’ve been there, where the dark, the heavy, the whatever you choose to call it boogy man,  consumes everything. I will gift you with a Bars® session for free. What will that do? Well it’s about an hour and a quarter of the best massage you’ll ever have. When was the last time you gifted you? I can hear you even now. Why is this woman offering something for free. I’ve been there. I know that I was gifted some things for free and because of the kindness of complete strangers I am here to offer to you the same. One session absolutely free. For some that’s all that’s required, they go away and their lives are different ...  for others they sign on as clients some for a long time some for a few months. It is what it is. Do you know there’s more yet you’ve no idea how to get there? Here’s the pair of hands and I offer them for you.

I’ve been with my horse today. I call him my horse. He isn’t he is owned by someone else yet I love him. Silly when I say it ... weird when I read it ... I’m loving a horse. He is magnificent though strong like a war horse, beauty in movement and kinder than any other creature I’ve met or known he simply is awesome. Why am I bringing this to you. The lady where the horse is and the horse gift me all the time. If you’re looking for confidence, horse handling, I know where to direct you. Simply ask

You already have a picture  of me. You know I’m all about bringing it for you. There’s a new group forming .... Mansfield Tavern Monday Nights 5.45pm approx. We have dinner the menu’s amazing and for under $20 you have a great night and get to meet amazing beings. There’s a (optional free as my guest) business meeting next room after at 7.30pm where if we’re really luck the business dynamo Chez Burton will gift us with a few minutes of her time. I’ve been seeking a female role model in this time and dimension for some time and I’m so glad Chez’s is here.

My world is expanding, the joy is in being and bees. The bees have formed a home on my eaves, a little mud made hive and there’s hundreds of them. How’d I get to be so lucky? They whisper sweet hummings to me at night and I’ve so much gratitude for the awesome awareness of being here on this planet right now .... Would you choose to be more?

What is it about change that evokes the desire of death?

My daughter left home at Christmas, my business closed at the same time, I felt as if I had a blank canvas and I kept seeing it as a wrongness and reacted to it with judgment of me. It’s been a really heavy few months. Heavy as in I’ve created heaps of moments where I’m asking Oh My (and I’m being polite here) How did I get to here? What else is possible?

These changes have created in me the desire to die, to not be in this existence, to get off the planet and any other thought feeling and desire to bring about the death of my body. How does one kill one’s self with ease? Jump off a building .... hmmmm .... at my daughters new home in an apartment block someone did just that, luckily my daughter did not see it and counseling was offered by the Police for those that did. Hmmm, there’s no desire for me to harm others, I would not choose to bring about a requirement of counseling for having seen my death, so jumping is out. Same with jumping in front of a train. I’ve no desire to bring the driver’s life any pain or conflict. In the UK there’s teams specifically for cleaning up tracks and trains of body parts. Hmmmm. That doesn’t work for me either. I’m not into pain and needles freak me out. So what else is possible? What other choices are there for me?

Plenty of people are going to react with judgment of me from this discussion. I say Bring It! Too many times all this death destruction change is seen as wrongness, judged and the person freaking out is worse, it is not a contribution to the person that is in the dark seeking something more, better, lighter, happier.

I’ve written about what I do before. I’ve explained I’m a domestic violence survivor. I was raped. I’ve been in the darkest places. Choosing to discuss the desire to kill oneself is a dark space for me. I’ve walked this road already. Yet. Here I am in front of you openly discussing change and choice of death. Is it that we’re in a space where it’s either or? Death or Change?

You know how the grapevine works right! I was talking to a lady who was gifting me some information about a friend of hers daughter who's suicidal. I'm a Bars Practitioner and a Creation Mentor, I know how to create amazingly. I said to the lady bring the girl around and I'll gift her with a Bars session, I know it will assist. Currently for $75 a session lasts about 1.25 hrs, if you buy 5 it's $250  the "hi-caps" rate .... The lady said, oh NO, she doesn't like change. Wow! How interesting that she did not allow the gift? Hmmm. It's so strange to me change happens every day. Our cells regenerate daily, we are literally different every day. When we were babies, we changed into children, then school attendees, then high school teens then young party goers who drive, then parents and then workers or business owners or home makers, then older, then dust. It is what happens every day. What is this fear (false expectations appearing real) of change? Of death? Death like change is just molecules moving around. What would it take for everyone to be on the same page? All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory®. This is the Access Consciousness Mantra. I say it ten times in the morning and ten times at night because I need to be reminded; that birds are the beauty of the sky, that insects bring a joy to these birds, that the ocean is filled with wonder and animals and it is also dark and scary place, yet, breath in the body is the greatest joy of all. You see there is another choice, choose living! If you have breath you have hope and while my discussion today is about death and change, it is not a wrongness, simply a choice. What do you choose?

What’s required from me to invite beings into my space so that these thoughts, feelings, emotions can be irradiated, annihilated and ease of living is the byproduct? Anything that won’t allow that U&D x GZ rwgbppa9sbb –Take action! – choose to change the desire to die, choose living please!. I’m here I can assist you or a loved one and there’s heaps of choice of other practitioners and facilitators that are willing to assist you as well if my energy doesn’t work for you. It is your choice. www.accessconsciousness.com

 

Next workshop on Bars® 22^nd June – how to register www.helenstokes.accessconsciounsess.com $200 investment in you - check it under my name is the tab classes.

Or I’m hosting a $20 night Confidence with a Capital LOL http://www.facebook.com/?ref=logo#!/events/578041455552368/

Or I’m jointly hosting a $80 day with Horse & You – Awesome Two ask me for more on this 19^th July at Burpengary.

Or www.beeu.com.au and book a private session.

And remember .... All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory® and please ask What else is possible?

Horses aren’t just horses ... they communicate and they are so eager to please.

Some of you know my story ... I’m a DV survivor and now I’d go so far as to say I’m a thriver or at least a work in progress to something much greater . So for me it’s about sharing how to go from Victim to Survivor to Thriver. Sure it was tough for a while. I’m so grateful to those that were always there and I mean always. Thank you. Now I’d like to be the one to gift back. I’m doing a horse handling course. It has built my confidence amazingly. I recommend it to any who know abuse.

The horse – has two names; his rescuer/owner calls him “Pippy” and for some of us we call him “Monsier Megladon (Msr)” he’s amazing. He’s strong and he’s tough and he shows me how strong sometimes by kicking and standing. I can lean on him and I’ve held his head in my hands and as he’s let all the weight go so that I know he trusts me. Do you have any idea what it’s like to feel trust .... Wow!! Tears are streaming down my face as I write this. This amazing strong beast has the gentlest nature and I know if he did not want to play ball with me or run after me like a puppy I could not get him too, he’s too strong even for me and I’m a big strong girl. He’s beautiful really beautiful when he trots the power is just amazing and did I mention beautiful.

I’ve learned to brush him. To walk around the back behind him. To lead him. To run with him. To command him to walk 4 steps, then stop on the 5^th count. Amazing. He runs behind me when I ask and he runs beside me like an organised event. It’s beautiful, it’s touching and I have much gratitude for it all. This majestic strong beast that could easily bowl me over gives himself entirely to me.

He knows what abuse is. He was rescued from the “doggers”. His old owners could not control him and yet with the teaching of Gary and Divina he is now gifting back. We can all gift, we can all learn and we can all choose to change. There is always another possibility if you choose it, like I have.

For me, I went into this to be more self assured around strong beings. Who’d have thought playing ball would bring that? It’s not all play although in truth I don’t call any of it work. Of course there’s a fee to the farm and Davina and there’s the fee for the horse carrots, that’s his payment plan and it’s cool for me. We say hello and a couple of carrots of course, then I halter him, walk him to the grooming rail, brush his coat and feet and mane, clean his hooves. I didn’t do all that the first day. Each process is taken one step at a time. Then we go and do ground work (handling) walk, trot, stop, turn, barrel hug, diamond steps and cross those hooves. All of it is fun and all to learn how to handle a horse on the ground. I have not ridden him. Then it’s ball playing. Then it’s us time, just him and me, and the carrots of course and we just be space with one another for a few minutes. It’s magic. I’m gifted and so is he. We both are having another choice to make more of us in this life. Amazing!

Because of this confidence two new things have occurred for me.

One is Davina and I are going to co-host a “Confidence”  class in July 9.30ish til 2.30 ish with a share lunch in the middle. We’ll brush, and run and play too. If I can do it anyone can. I was shaking and with tears the first day. Now I pick up his hoof and clear it out. It’s magic. Let me know if you are interested.

The other is - I've always liked networking. It's had a wrap sheet for some, though not for me, and besides that was the past, even Myer changed over the years. I like that people get together and chat about what they do over coffee. For me, I'm interested. If you buy something great, if not, have a chat that's great too. So for me it's win win. I'm having my first coffee night, yes the new confident me, at my home tonight (Logan City) 6.30 - 8pm and I've invited a very small group just to test ... Hey I'm nervous. Hey if no one shows up I’ve coffee and fresh lamingtons. If you're interested let me know and I'll invite you next time. Guest Speakers John & Chez Burton "How to build a dream". The plan is to do them 2 or 3 times a week different days and times. If you have a preference .... Let me know ........ Now that I’m always up for coffee and a chat :)

Being with this amazing horse has taught me to respect myself, and to be present. He is stronger than me and if I’m not present he might get hurt or me and that just won’t do. I’ve built a relationship with a male energy, I never would have thought that possible again. Ok he’s not people, he’s a horse, yet I’m better with people too. I don’t stammer anymore and I walk like I’m present. Head up, shoulders back and uplift the body and man is that fun when we’re running. I so enjoy it. I enjoy living. I have much gratitude for the choice to be present as a present to both of us J

Thanks again for reading. Always up for a chat .......... Helen     www.beeu.com.au

Wondering the streets and creeks of our amazing country ...

A girlfriend and I decided go for a drive up the country yesterday (Sunday 26th May). We started early in the morning 7.30 and head up the Sunshine Coast. We took the Kilcoy turn off along the D'Aguliar Hwy and wow were we taken aback by how much of that road has been totally rebuilt since the floods. It was well worth the drive just to see how much of a path the water tore through and how much of the mountain road has been re-set. Amazing!

We stopped at Yarraman, picture above and below and fossicked a creek bed for some perforated wood and some crystals. How much fun it was to hold the grass, luckily quite long, as we steadied ourselves and headed down into the creek. Amazingly I lost my girlfriend at one point she’d fallen on her >>> (no damage) and we laughed and laughed. She’s much more of a country dare devil than me. I discovered prickles. Ha ha ha. What was also amazing was all the shells, little pipi (not sure of the spelling of these) and crab shells small and fun. There were thousands of them.

 

We headed up to buy a lotto ticket ... you never know until you give it a go, at the store in Yarraman. We'll let you know if we win by our shots of Paris ... What would it take to go and see Paris??? and more of Australia.... We both love our sunburned country :)

From here we head towards Toowoomba. The road was smooth and well taken care of. The scenery changed to more standard country image; large blocks with cattle and very few houses. We talked often and also allowed ourselves a few quiet moments of reflection. We wondered what people who live in the country do all day. We know there's times when they are busy tending cattle, sheep, fences and markets, yet, what happens when that is not required? We travelled and travelled then came to a small town called Crows Nest, where we stopped for a bite; we had a look at an amazing shop with lots of antique desks and cupboards and there was an arts and crafts store (and a definite answer to our question) .... Let’s go in said my fried ... I was pleasantly surprised at how large it was. I asked the lovely friendly welcoming lady at the counter how long she’d been there and if she owned the shop ...

They’d been there about three years, her and her husband, they’d come from Rochedale, interestingly as I’m currently in Logan myself, it’s a small world. They run it as a co-op, forty eight exhibiters and they all share the rent and the time in the shop collectively. Some of the work is just amazing and well worth a day trip. If you’re thinking of somewhere different to go, I recommend Crows Nest.

We travelled again after a brief hand washing visit. My word the water was cold in them there hills ha ha ha. 

We found a road that head back to Esk and again were surprised by how amazingly smooth and well kept the road was. The trees that dotted the path made the trip kind of eerie, the dark and light it was an amazing adventure. We pulled off the side of the road to let those in a hurry go by and we wound down the track and enjoyed every moment. It was fun.

We arrived in Esk, just in time to fill up with petrol and we met an amazing lady from Canada (it is a very small world) that commented on the sign on the car that she too had enjoyed receiving "Bars" energetic modality.

We visited several shops and of course had to partake of some more amazing hand washing in the cold cold cold and did I mention cold water. Ha ha ha

From Esk we head over the Wivenhoe and the amazing beauty of that dam filled with water. Watching the birds had a very calming effect on our trip coming to a close as we head back home to North Brisbane for my girlfriend and then me to Logan. All round the day was amazing the driving was fun. How does it get better? We travelled over six hundred kilometres and the petrol bill which my kind friend paid was fifty dollars. So for a totally actioned packed day it was great fun and reasonably priced.

Just for something totally different. What was your last adventure? What else is possible?